Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Fajr up




The Prophet (SAW) said:
“Whoever prays the fajr prayer in congregation, 
it is as if he (or she) had prayed the whole night long.” 

Now, to show the seriousness of missing this prayer,
we present the Hadith of the Prophet (SAW)
The most burdensome prayers for the hypocrites are Isha and Fajr, 
but if they only knew what they contain, t
hey would come even if they had to crawl.”

The Fajr (dawn) prayer is amongst the most important acts of worship,
being one of the five obligatory prayers.

Unfortunately many of us have become so used to missing it at its prescribed time –
which ends at sunrise –
that we have forgotten its position in our religion,
and barely feel anything is wrong when we wake up for work or school without having performed the fajr prayer.
On the other hand, if one of us was to miss a job interview or a flight,
we all know how disappointed he or she would feel.

Do not let Satan benefit from his actions.
Do not put off a good that you intended to do
as you never know how much reward you might receive from the hardships you encounter
while trying to achieve that good.





Sunday, December 25, 2011

THE IDEAL MUSLIM HUSBAND





The best love story for a Muslim is finding a wife/husband who makes their Imaan rise,
who makes them want to gain knowledge and become more pious,
what is more blessed than that !

The key to succeeding in marriage is not finding the right person;
it is learning to love the person you found.O Allaah,
guide us & help us to live, love & die for Your sake alone. Ameen.



"THE IDEAL MUSLIM HUSBAND"

♥He chooses a good wife.
♥He understands his wife and respects her feelings.
♥He helps her to make up for her failings and weaknesses.
♥He knows how to strike a balance between pleasing his wife and treating his mother with due kindness and respect.
♥He fully understands his role as a protector and maintainer (qawwam) of his wife.
♥He does not disclose her secrets.
♥He helps her to obey Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala).
♥He fills her heart with joy.
♥He shares her joys and sorrows.
♥He does not look at other women.
♥He is one of the most successful husbands.







Saturday, December 10, 2011

A Woman's Dua for Husband






O Allah! Please grant me the one
Who will be the garment for my soul
Who will satisfy half of my deen
And in doing so make me whole

Make him righteous and on your path
In all he'll do and say
And sprinkle water on me at Fajr
Reminding me to pray

May he earn from halal sources
And spend within his means
May he seek Allah's guidance always
To fulfill all his dreams

May he always refer to Qur'an
and the Sunnah as his moral guide
May he thank and appreciate Allah
For the woman at his side



Friday, December 9, 2011

WHAT CAN I EAT AND DRINK?

WHAT CAN I EAT AND DRINK?



"O you who believe! Eat of the good things (Halal) that We have provided for you, and be grateful to Allah (swt) if Him it is that you serve" (2:172)

Halal and Haraam
Halal is an Arabic word which means lawful or allowed. Halal with regards to food and drink means that it is permitted for Muslims under the Islamic Law (Shari'ah). Halal food and drink does not consist of anything which is deemed unlawful.

Haraam is an Arabic word which means unlawful or forbidden. Haraam with regards to food and drink means that it is not permitted for Muslims under the Islamic Law (Shari'ah). It is considered a sin for a muslim to knowingly consume haraam food.

There are many rules regarding halal and haraam with regards to food and drink. It is important to note that the rules may vary depending on necessity.

Each individual should follow a Mujthahid and obtain a copy of his rulings. Please click here to jump to the page on following a Mujthahid. Within a Mujthahid's rulings you will find many Islamic rules with regards to food and drink. We have also included below some rulings from Ayatullah Seestani, for a complete set of rulings from Ayatullah Seestani please click here, once in the site click on Islamic Laws.

In the meantime please note the following very general points:
  • Anything from a pig, meat and by-products etc, are all haraam.
  • Drinking alcohol is haraam.
  • Halal animals should be slaughtered according to Islamic law. Many towns now have a halal butchers shop.
  • If a halal animal, eg cow, is not slaughtered in accordance with Islamic law then the meat becomes haraam for Muslims.
  • Carrion is haraam

A few rulings from Islamic Laws by Ayatullah Seestani:

2633. All birds, like eagle, vultures and wild falcons having a claw and talon, are haraam to eat. And all such birds whose gliding is more than flapping the wings, and have talons, are also haraam to eat. Those whose flapping of the wings while flying, is more than gliding, are halal to eat.
Thus, one can identify halal birds from haraam ones by observing how they fly. And if the style of any bird's flight cannot be determined, that bird will be considered halal for eating, if it has a crop or a gizzard or a spur on the back of its feet. In the absence of all these, the bird will be haraam. As an obligatory precaution, one should refrain from eating the meat of all types of crows.
Other birds like the hens, the pigeons, the sparrows including the ostrich and the peacock are halal to eat, but it is Makrooh to kill birds like swallows and hoopoes. And the animals which fly, but are not classified as winged birds, like the bats, are haraam; similarly, the bees, the mosquitoes, and other flying insects are, as an obligatory precaution, haraam.

2634. If a part which possesses life is removed from the body of a living animal, for example, if the fatty tail or some flesh is removed from the body of a living sheep, it is najis and haraam to eat.

2635. Certain parts of the halal animals are haraam to eat. They are fourteen:
  • Blood
  • Excrement
  • Male and female genitals
  • Womb
  • Glands
  • Testicles
  • Pituitary gland, a ductless gland in the brain
  • The marrow which is in the spinal cord
  • The two wide (yellow) nerves which are on both sides of the spinal cord, (as an obligatory precaution).
  • Gall bladder
  • Spleen
  • Urinary bladder
  • Eye balls

These parts are haraam in all halal animals other than the birds. As for the birds, their blood and excrement is definitely haraam, and apart from these two, the parts enumerated in the above list are haraam, as a measure of precaution.

2639. It is haraam to eat an absolutely harmful thing, or anything which may cause death.

2641. If the kid of a goat or a lamb sucks the milk of a female pig to such an extent that its flesh and bones grow from it and gain strength, itself and its offspring become haraam, and if the quantity of milk sucked by it is less, it will be necessary that it is confined (Istibra) as prescribed in Shariah and thereafter, it becomes halal.
And its Istibra is that it should suck Pak milk for seven days, or if it does not need milk, it should graze grass for seven days. As an obligatory precaution, this law applies to the calves, and all the young ones of halal animals. Also, it is haraam to eat the meat of an animal which eats najasat and it becomes halal when its Istibra is fulfilled. The manner of observing Istibra has been explained in rule 226.

2642. Drinking alcoholic beverage is haraam, and in some traditions (Ahadith), it has been declared as among the greatest sins. Imam Ja'far Sadiq (A.S.) says: "Alcohol is the root of all evils and sins. A person who drinks alcohol loses his sanity. At that time, he does not know Allah (swt), does not fear committing any sin, respects the rights of no one, and does not desist from committing evil openly. The spirit of faith and piety departs from him and only the impure and vicious spirit, which is far off from the Mercy of Allah (swt), remains in his body. Allah (swt), His angels, His prophets and the true believers curse such a man, and his daily prayers are not accepted for forty days. On the Day of Judgement his face will be dark, and his tongue will come out of his mouth, the saliva will fall on his chest and he will desperately complain of thirst".

2643. To eat at a table at which people are drinking alcohol is haraam and similarly, to sit at that table where people are drinking alcohol is haraam, as a precaution, if one would be reckoned among them.

2644. It is obligatory upon every Muslim to save the life of a Muslim, who may be dying of hunger or thirst, by providing him enough to eat or drink.

Eating manners

2645. There are certain Mustahab rules to be observed while taking a meal; they are as follows:
  • Washing both the hands before taking a meal.
  • After taking a meal, one should wash one's hands, and dry them with a dry cloth.
  • The host should begin eating first, and should also be the last to withdraw his hand. Before starting to take a meal, the host should wash his own hands first, and thereafter, the person sitting on his right should do so. Then the other guests should follow him, till it is the turn of the person sitting on the left side of the host. After finishing the meal, the person sitting on the left side of the host should wash his hands first, and thereafter other persons should follow him till it is the turn of the host.
  • One should say Bismillah before starting to eat, and if there are several dishes, it is Mustahab to say Bismillah before partaking of each of the dishes.
  • One should eat with one's right hand.
  • One should eat using three or more fingers and should not eat with two fingers only.
  • If several persons are sitting together for their meals, everyone of them should partake of the food placed in front of him.
  • One should take small bits of food.
  • One should prolong the duration of taking a meal.
  • One should chew the food thoroughly.
  • After taking one's meal one should praise and thank Allah(swt).
  • One should lick one's fingers clean after taking food.
  • One should use a toothpick after taking a meal. However, the toothpick should not be made of sweet basil (a fragrant grass) or the leaves of date-palm.
  • One should collect and eat the food which is scattered on the dining cloth. However, if one takes meal in an open place, like a desert etc, it is better to leave the food which has fallen aside, so that it may be eaten by the animals and the birds.
  • One should take one's meal in the earlier part of the day, and in the earlier part of the night and should not eat during the day or during the night.
  • After taking one's meal one should lie on one's back, and should place one's right foot on one's left foot.
  • One should take salt before and after the meal.
  • When eating a fruit, one should first wash it before eating.
There are many scientific proofs for the above rules on eating. In due course we hope to cover them on the science page Insha'Allah.
Some Quranic Ayats regarding Food and Drink
O you people, eat of what is on earth lawful and good, and do not follow the footsteps of Satan, for he is to you an avowed enemy. 2:168

O you who believe, eat of the good things that We have provided for you, and be grateful to God, if it is him you worship. 2:172

He has only forbidden you carrion, blood, the flesh of swine and that on which any other name has been invoked besides that of God. But if one is forced by necessity, without wilful disobedience or transgressing due limits, then is he guiltless. For God is Oft-forgiving Most Merciful. 2:173

Forbidden to you for food are: Carrion, blood, the flesh of swine and that on which has been invoked the name of other than God, that which has been killed by strangling, by violent blow, by a headlong fall or by being gored to death; that which has been partly eaten by a wild animal unless you are able to slaughter it (in due form), that which is sacrificed on stone (alters); (forbidden) also is the division (of meat) by raffling with arrows: that is impiety. this day have those who rejected faith given up all hope of your religion: So fear them not, but fear Me. This day have I perfected your religion for you, completed My favour upon you, and have chosen for you Islam as your religion. But if any is forced by hunger, with no inclination to transgression, God is indeed Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful. 5:3

They ask you what is lawful to them (as food) say: Lawful unto you are (all) things good and pure and what you have taught your trained hunting animals (to catch) in the manner directed to you by God; eat what they catch for you but pronounce the name of God over it; and fear God: For God is swift to account. 5:4

O you who believe: Make not unlawful the good things which God has made lawful for you but commit no excess for God love not those given to excess. 5:87

Eat of the things which God has provided for you, lawful and good; but fear God, in whom you believe. 5:88

So Eat of the (meat) on which God's name has been pronounced if you have faith in His Signs. 6:118

So eat of sustainance which God has provided for you lawful and good and be grateful for the favours of God if it is he whom you serve. 16:114

He has only forbidden you carrion and blood and the fesh of swine and any (food) over which the name of other than God has been invoked, but if one is forced by necessity without wilful disobedience nor transgressing due limits then God is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful. 16:115

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Pray





This is the button you need to keeping pressing throughout your life.
Keep pressing patiently till the doors of success and happiness opens.

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Way to Success and Inner peace !

► Play the Qur'aan
▌▌Pause the desires...
■ Stop the shaytaan.
◄◄ Rewind the happiness

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We Are Muslim





رَبَّنَا وَاجْعَلْنَا مُسْلِمَيْنِ
Our Lord! make of us Muslims
[Al Qur'an 2:128]

وَنَحْنُ لَهُ مُسْلِمُونَ
And we are Muslims
[Al Qur'an 2:133]

آمَنَّا بِاللّهِ وَاشْهَدْ بِأَنَّا مُسْلِمُونَ
We believe in Allah, and do thou bear witness that we are Muslims
[Al Qur'an 3:52]

هُوَ سَمَّاكُمُ الْمُسْلِمينَ
It is He Who has named you Muslims
[Al Qur'an 22:78]

إِنَّا كُنَّا مِن قَبْلِهِ مُسْلِمِينَ
Indeed we have been Muslims from before this
[Al Qur'an 28:53]


~A MUSLIM MAN'S LOVE ♥ LETTER~



If you love me, don’t confess your love to me through haraam ways,
This won’t please me and will instead drive me away!
Love games don’t attract me.
If you love me, have sabr and I will knock on your door when the time is right.

Don’t give me privileges which I don’t deserve.
Keep me away from you, and I will approach you.
If you approach me, I will stay away from you.
Don’t love me, for I want you ignorant in love.
I want to teach you love when the right time comes and when you will be mine,

Only when we are joined together under our Creator’s satisfaction
Don’t tell me what you feel, don’t give me from your time, don’t push me to lose you.
I am a man who does not want to see the one he loves committing sins or to live a forbidden love behind her family’s back.
I don’t want her to feel guilty and don’t want her heart to suffer.
Put me under limits that I won’t cross, kill me inside you so I won’t grow to kill you.

Preserve what is beautiful inside you.
I want you innocent, chaste, pure.
I want you my love, but with Allah’s blessings and not shaytan’s whisperings.
And then, Only then, I will face everything and will be ready to go through difficulties to get you,

Don’t be easy because then, I may not value you.
Don’t love me now, so I won’t hate you!
My heart wants you and doesn’t want to lose you.
I don’t want you to be just a passing fancy for me,
I want you a wife, a lover, the mother of my children,
I want you to be the one I will spend my whole life with.

How could I be a faithful man to you when I try to break your chastity?
How would I be faithful to you if I push you to betray your family?
How could I trust a love which grew under Allah’s wrath ?
To make you mine through niqah is Islam’s way,
Till then wait patiently and do not dismay.
To love you means to protect you,
To Love you is to bring you closer to Allah and HIS deen
To preserve you not to kill what is beautiful inside you. ♥ ♥ ♥


Friday, December 2, 2011

Zhikr (Dhikr)






Keep your tongues wet & busy with the Dhikr of Allah all the time

The Messenger of Allaah (sallAllaahu 'alyhi wasallam) said,
"The most beloved words to Allaah are four as follows":

SubhanAllah   (Glory be to ALLAH),
Alhamdulillah   (Praise be to ALLAH),
La ilaaha illAllah   (there is no god except ALLAH),
Allahu Akbar   (ALLAH is great).